Father's Day?

Hey blog family!

I was on bedrest, but I am back! Sunday is father's day...I know your thinking..."but I don't have  a dad!"
I guess if you are in a  home, chances are you don't , unless your their because you did not go to school... I want you to think about what a father is and what his role is in a house.
One day you will be a dad and I want you to be a better one than your dad.
 I still want you to respect your parents because they did birth you and thanks to them, the world can be a better place---if you do what you need to do to improve your life and then help others like you!
The only time I would NOT have respect for my parents or anyone is when they abused me, physically, verbally or mentally! Abuse is NEVER acceptable!

Back to dad's....if you have a dad that was not good, don't sweat it---you can get through life without one---ask the president and all those before him--including our ancestors during slavery, all the kids who lost their dad's to a war...you are not alone.
Society sometimes makes us feel bad but it does not matter why your dad is not here, he is not...BUT there is always role models you can pick in your community who you rhink you would like to be like--not because they make tons of money or have a big house or car or they are famous, but because you see them out with their kids, playing in the park, talking to them about life and everything else, you see them give their kids a hug and say they love them, you see them helping other children and taking care of his family.
 this model dad is a man who works hard and enjoys life and his family and or friends..... this could be anyone you respect...look for a good model, let them know you need a mentor..
Only a man can teach you how to be a man, but you can always find a role model. If you  know someone you respect Sunday, wish them a happy father's day.
 Don't be sad on this day, think about the kind of dad you will be and what you will want for your family:: Peace, love, prosperity, health and happiness!
Think of good things Sunday-even if you don't have a dad! Reflect, (think) of the type of  Good dad you will be one day..you can start now by going to classes, only dating girls who go to classes and has future dreams..but you have too much homework to think about dating right???
 xo Tanya
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