trust

hi blog family--  summer is coming to an end.
Are you in a new group home or are you adjusting to the new place ok? Trust- how do you start to trust others after being left in a home with strangers???
By trusting yourself first... you have to learn to make decisions-which friends are good/bad--which events You can do without getting into trouble...you have to learn to trust your instincts!! You made it through so far--so your a smart individual in a strange situation.

Look at this experience as it is....an experience!! What you do with it will decide how your life will be from here on... trust only you first then you will know how to surround yourself with good, positive people who can help get you where you need to go....
Trust yourself enough to ask for help when you need it in the group home or at school..
trust yourself to know when you need to find an adult mentor/big brother/sister--because you need a family like connection.
trust yourself when you want to cry and cry--because you know that ALL things shall pass--even the hard times---if you stay alive and make plans for your future, things will always get better.

Its ok to trust people Unless they show you they are not trustworthy!!
Humans are going to make mistakes---learn form theres and if you make a mistake trusting someone that gossips about you later--it's ok...life will not end because of a rumor--move on and hold your head high and proud because you are a true hero for surviving this far and like all SUPERHERO's---you can be rebuilt---even while in foster care!!! 
choose your friends wisely
choose the places you hang carefully--it will give you an image
choose to love you--you are the best!!

bye for now my kings and queens of the blog world!! Tanya