you are blessed

Hi blog family!
Glad you are going to school, doing your homework and asking for help when you need it!

The earthquake in Japan should be one of many reasons you should be thankful not only for your life, but that you have choices! 
Pray for the kids that are now "orphaned" because of this earthquake.
Be thankful for what you DO have in your life NOW!!
 Every day is a new one that YOU COULD, do ANYTHING, you choose, if you study hard, stay away from drugs, negative people, places & things AND be grateful for what you do have!!
You are blessed SO much and you will bless others with your, smile, your gift, your talent and your tenacity to live your best life!
 keep on moving, don't stop (british group, Soul 2 Soul).. lol...
you are loved, special and needed by the universe,
stay in your king and queeen position-no one can dethrone you!
!! xo Tanya

EX FOSTER KIDS UNITE: alot to be thankful for...even in recovery

EX FOSTER KIDS UNITE: alot to be thankful for...even in recovery: "Hi blog family! Recovery from anything is a long, slow process and we should never rush' to get better, from surgery, addiction, injury's, ..."

Investigators continue to focus on abusive ex-cop in Bronx mom slaying - NYPOST.com

Investigators continue to focus on abusive ex-cop in Bronx mom slaying - NYPOST.com

Ladies and Gentelmen: This is pertaining to abusive partners!

If you grew up in a group home, were moved around or had family abusive issues, your likely to attract to this type of partner. I am giving you a few things to look for after you read this article: REMEMBER, THE SIGNS OF AN ABUSIVE PARTNER ARE ALWAYS THERE BEFORE YOU DATE OR MARRY HIM/HER, YOU JUST DID NOT WANT TO LISTEN OR YOU WANTED TO ATTRACT YOUR OLD "FAMILY" DRAMA OF ABUSE..MEANING IF YOU GREW UP IN A HOUSE OF VIOLENT CHAOS, UNLESS YOU GET THE PROPER THERAPY- YOU WILL ATTRACT THE SAME TYPE OF MATES!!! INSANITY= DOING THE SAME THING OVER, EXPECTING DIFFERENT RESULTS, IF THEY YELL AT YOU, CHECK YOUR CELL PHONE, SAY THINGS LIKE, " I KNOW YOU GOTTA GO SEE YOUR OTHER FRIEND", ALL SIGNS OF A POTENTIAL ABUSIVE MATE/STALKER. THESE MEN ARE KILLING THEIR PARTNERS BECAUSE THEIR VALUES SAYS: IF I CAN'T HAVE YOU, NO ONE CAN, EVEN THE KIDS!! STAY AWAY FROM ANYONE THAT YELLS, ARGUES EXCESSIVLY, HITS YOU, THREATENS YOU, CHECKS YOUR PHONE, WERE YOU AT, DON'T WANT YOU TO GO TO YOUR MOM'S OR SISTERS HOUSE, DON'T WANT YOU WITH YOUR FRIENDS OR WAITS TILL YOU GET HOME AND CALLS YOU EVERY FEW MINUTES....STALKER....RUN!!!

PLEASE KNOW THAT FOSTER KIDS WHO TURN INTO ADULTS USUALLY WILL SETTLE, AND IF THAT GUY HAS ALOT OF $, CUTE, HAS A HOUSE....(YOU KNOW ALL THE FRILLS, YOU THINK YOU ARE STABLE OR SAFE.....NOT....DONT EVER RELY ON ANYONE TO TAKE CARE OF YOU BUT YOU!! READ AND LEARN FROM THIS COUPLE.... 1ST SIGN,,HE HAD A HISTORY OF ABUSE WITH EX WIFE....DAH....WHY WOULD HE CHANGE, WITHOUT PROPER THERAPY????? EXACTLY XO TANYA

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how do you pick your friends?

Hi blog family!

hope school is going well and you are loving your classes, friends and school life!

This time of year can be a challenge because if your grades are not up you may be feeling down... Don't worry- you can start today, getting the help and support you need-BY ASKING!! 

Sometimes adults don't see a red flag and you may have to speak up!!
If your teacher is difficult, your dealing with a bully in class, you don't understand the work- Speak up! You have to fight for yourself and always stand up for you! That is why you were born with a mouth and a brain!


On another note I want you to hold Japan in the light and be grateful you are not only living, but able to create change in an instant because you are powerful, talented, and much needed by this world! Maybe you can figure out why people use "Nuclear" anything - when they know it will kill us all?
 Your job is to go to school and reach your destiny, maybe it will be you, who saves the world!!

You are loved, special and don't forget to smile, someone may be watching you!!
Have a great day and stay in control of your destiny by planning and doing only that which is positive and will help you get ahead in life!! xxo T

praying for japan

hi blog family!

I hope school is going well!

pray for Japan and all the other Countries/places that had catastrophic events. You must always meditate harder for others than yourself- it takes your mind off of your problems when you help others!!! Remember when it comes to catastrophy's, drugs and life--their is no discrimination so we must ALL come togeather for the sake of this earth.

Hold Japan in the light (pray) (meditate)- whatever your preference but think of those in need today, and worry about you another time. 

Please pray for any kids left in the orphanages there, pray that those who make it are resilant, and hold on until rescue comes. 

Man thinks he is smarter than God or the Universe- it can never be and we will see many more things happen that NO ONE has control over! The lesson will be for ALL of us to come togeather, or destroy one another!

Remember the earth will always be here, we are the ones that will vanish or change form if man does not stop thinking he is creator...We all have divine purpose, what is yours, what legacy do you want to leave if you died today?? think, meditate and take action-today!

if you have food, shelter & health - you should be praising the universe/God for letting you rise one more day without incident. 

You can show you are grateful by helping others- that can be with a smile, deed, check or prayer! xo

Tanya

Xavier Simmons - Simpler Things

i always support young talent-stay on your grind young people!!

healing from abuse

hi, i am putting this up again because it is important for you to get on with your future!! process, process and then move on.. xo tanya